Rockstar Blends

What your body already knows.

Perimenopause • Menopause • After

Most of us were never taught that our body has a sophisticated system to balance the workings of sleep, appetite, inflammation response, mood and more.

Or how women can engage that system to help us stay vibrant, sexy & joyful through all our body's changes.

Rockstar Woman

Rockstar Woman

100% plant-based topical body & intimate oil hand-crafted for women in every stage of life.

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What's Going On?

Rockstar Woman
Comfort & intimacyTopical help with dryness & desire. Chemical & cruelty-free
Read: Vaginal Dryness in Menopause & Botanicals: What the Science Shows →
Rockstar Woman
Pleasure & healthspanOrgasm releases waves of healing hormones through our bodies.
Read: More Than This: Extended Orgasm & The Fountain of Youth →

What women say.

Almost perfect in every way ;)
John Hiemstra
My youth serum. I was already super happy with the results of this oil for its intended use. And then one day I ran out my normal daily facial oil and grabbed my bottle of Rockstar Woman as a emergency substitute- and that's when it really blew my mind. I kept using it daily on my face from that day on, and I'm never looking back. I get compliments daily on how my skin glows and looks so young. (I'm almsot 50),Wrinkles gone! Skin soft like a baby! If I could give a 10 star rating I would! Thank you Heather!!!
Darcy Alvarez
My youth serum. I was already super happy with the results of this oil for its intended use. And then one day I ran out my normal daily facial oil and grabbed my bottle of Rockstar Woman as a emergency substitute- and that's when it really blew my mind. I kept using it daily on my face from that day on, and I'm never looking back. I get compliments daily on how my skin glows and looks so young. (I'm almsot 50),Wrinkles gone! Skin soft like a baby! If I could give a 10 star rating I would! Thank you Heather!!!
Rockstar Everyday Care. I absolutely love this product. I found it at heath fair and fell in love with it immediately. It’s works within minutes for intimacy and increased stimulation. I love the fact it’s all natural and she uses only bio available ingredients that actually work to stimulate sensation, lubrication and bonus it smells and tastes delicious. I also use DMSO to enhance to absorption rate. You can only do this with products that have zero toxins. DMSO is a solvent and pulls whatever you apply it with directly into the blood stream and tissues super fast.
Heather H
Rockstar Everyday Care. I absolutely love this product. I found it at heath fair and fell in love with it immediately. It’s works within minutes for intimacy and increased stimulation. I love the fact it’s all natural and she uses only bio available ingredients that actually work to stimulate sensation, lubrication and bonus it smells and tastes delicious. I also use DMSO to enhance to absorption rate. You can only do this with products that have zero toxins. DMSO is a solvent and pulls whatever you apply it with directly into the blood stream and tissues super fast.
Amazing 10/10. Seriously an amazing product! My husband and i use the mens and women blends as often as we can. Intensifies the experience to an incredible level. We definitely don’t let this run out.
Tay
Rockstar Woman. Thank you Heather for creating this beautiful oil , I am in menopause and this has changed my intimate relationship with my husband in a way I didn’t think possible!! It is such a perfect blend , the texture the smell all of it! This has become a ritual in my life and I’m so grateful for you and your beautiful products !
Sha
Rockstar Woman. Thank you Heather for creating this beautiful oil , I am in menopause and this has changed my intimate relationship with my husband in a way I didn’t think possible!! It is such a perfect blend , the texture the smell all of it! This has become a ritual in my life and I’m so grateful for you and your beautiful products !
Rockstar Woman: Body & Intimate Oil for Better Balance & Wellbeing. It is part of my nightly ritual—smells so amazing and feels so good to apply. Whether I'm with my partner or not! I have incorporated it in my self care routine which also includes a journal entry and setting intentions for the morrow. It's so important to me to support a woman-owned business, as well as one that cares so much about the integrity of the product. Buy it now!! :)
Booz
Rockstar Woman: Body & Intimate Oil for Better Balance & Wellbeing. It is part of my nightly ritual—smells so amazing and feels so good to apply. Whether I'm with my partner or not! I have incorporated it in my self care routine which also includes a journal entry and setting intentions for the morrow. It's so important to me to support a woman-owned business, as well as one that cares so much about the integrity of the product. Buy it now!! :)
In my 20s again. My libido had gone down dramatically, so I tried Rockstar Woman - wow! Even after plenty of release, I didn't want to stop. It was like I was in my 20s again!
SW
Lifetime necessity. This is now an essential to my life. I had a lot of sexual trauma that made me anxious in daily life but especially during sex. This has completely freed me to actually feel my pleasure and get out of my head.
Angie
It’s like Pavlov’s dog :). My husband hears me shake my bottle of Rockstar Woman and he comes running. We love this stuff!!!
A
Oh my gosh -. Its so luxurious I feel like I have a 17 year old snatch!
AN
I love this oil blend. It creates a warm sensation and the smell is a bit spicy. My husband and I are reminded of pumpkin pie! I've used it vaginally for menstrual cramp relief but love it more for it's ability to extend the peak and intensity of my orgasms.
AR
Okay just wow! I never knew my body was capable of such “release”. Not going to TMI here, just get yourself a bottle, shake it up like she says, and just have the best orgasms. Of. Your. Life!!!
Rachel
Oh it works!!! It works it works it works! And it makes perfect sense. As you say, we spend all this time and energy moisturizing etc, why don’t we take care of ourselves down there? Orgasms alone are the reason to buy this product, but all of the other health benefits make it truly a miracle formula. Oh and my partner loves the taste
Mary Kate
Oh it works!!! It works it works it works! And it makes perfect sense. As you say, we spend all this time and energy moisturizing etc, why don’t we take care of ourselves down there? Orgasms alone are the reason to buy this product, but all of the other health benefits make it truly a miracle formula. Oh and my partner loves the taste
I feel like it has saved my marriage. Heather, thank you for creating Rockstar Woman, I feel like it has saved my marriage. Intercourse used to be painful and on top of that, I had no interest, other than wanting to please my partner. Thank you for creating a product that not only takes away the pain, but makes sex fun and exciting again. I can’t thank you enough. Oh, and it just smells so good!
Bea
I feel like it has saved my marriage. Heather, thank you for creating Rockstar Woman, I feel like it has saved my marriage. Intercourse used to be painful and on top of that, I had no interest, other than wanting to please my partner. Thank you for creating a product that not only takes away the pain, but makes sex fun and exciting again. I can’t thank you enough. Oh, and it just smells so good!
Out of this world CRAZY. Holy **** our sex as I told you is always amazing but the Rockstar it’s explosive!!!???? out of this world CRAZY!!!! It just adds many many layers of deepness and ecstasy. I’m not kidding. You have something there. It’s not just okay maybe I feel a little something different….. it’s explosive!!!
Ellen
Out of this world CRAZY. Holy **** our sex as I told you is always amazing but the Rockstar it’s explosive!!!???? out of this world CRAZY!!!! It just adds many many layers of deepness and ecstasy. I’m not kidding. You have something there. It’s not just okay maybe I feel a little something different….. it’s explosive!!!
I always have one with me. Using RockStar woman daily, helps me feel like I am on an even keel. I can’t quite describe it, but I always know if I forgot to use it in the morning, so now I buy three bottles at a time, so I always have one with me, Because it just makes me feel energized and calm, all while keeping me moisturized.
Alana
I always have one with me. Using RockStar woman daily, helps me feel like I am on an even keel. I can’t quite describe it, but I always know if I forgot to use it in the morning, so now I buy three bottles at a time, so I always have one with me, Because it just makes me feel energized and calm, all while keeping me moisturized.
Desert island product, right here! It smells good, it tastes good, I am never itchy or irritated or dry anymore. I use it for sex, I use it as a daily lubricant, it is so good dor you! I use it for bloating, I use it for any sort of body pain. I rub it on my chest for a little glow and a sexy scent. I’ve even been known to put a dab on my face and i always run a little bit through my hair. Oh, and did I mention insane orgasms? Yeah I’ll take a case on my desert island please.
Teegan
Desert island product, right here! It smells good, it tastes good, I am never itchy or irritated or dry anymore. I use it for sex, I use it as a daily lubricant, it is so good dor you! I use it for bloating, I use it for any sort of body pain. I rub it on my chest for a little glow and a sexy scent. I’ve even been known to put a dab on my face and i always run a little bit through my hair. Oh, and did I mention insane orgasms? Yeah I’ll take a case on my desert island please.
Amazing. I’ve used this to completion and have to order more.. I absolutely love this product during hormonal changes during times of the month. It just feels like it balances everything out and is immediately soothing. I also use this for pre and post sex! Pre- as a warm up and in addition to lube, and post for relief. I’ve even recommended this product to friends who suffer with hemorrhoids from stress or post birth! There are so many uses for it and that’s why I ran out!
D Tomasello
Amazing. I’ve used this to completion and have to order more.. I absolutely love this product during hormonal changes during times of the month. It just feels like it balances everything out and is immediately soothing. I also use this for pre and post sex! Pre- as a warm up and in addition to lube, and post for relief. I’ve even recommended this product to friends who suffer with hemorrhoids from stress or post birth! There are so many uses for it and that’s why I ran out!

Trusted for generations. Confirmed by modern science.

Apothecary bottles of botanical oilsBlack pepper. Lavender. Frankincense. Rose. Vanilla.

The plants that have supported women through this transition for centuries aren't exotic. You already know them. What's newer is understanding why these plants — and more — have earned their reputations: they carry cannabinoids and terpenes, small aromatic molecules that fit receptors your body already has. Those receptors belong to the endocannabinoid system, a network every one of us is born with.

What's the endocannabinoid system?

Every mammal on earth runs on the same master regulatory network, and most people have never heard it named. The endocannabinoid system (ECS) is three things working together: receptors — CB1, found mostly in the brain and nervous system, and CB2, found mostly in immune cells and skin — the molecules your body makes to switch them on (endocannabinoids such as anandamide, named for the Sanskrit word for bliss), and the enzymes that clear those molecules away when the job is done.⁠[1] Think of it as a thermostat. It sits underneath homeostasis, nudging sleep, mood, inflammation response and appetite back toward centre, and it runs all the way through the menopausal transition. It isn't a private language, either: the same receptors respond to molecules made by plants, which is why a spice-rack terpene like beta-caryophyllene binds CB2 directly.⁠[2]

Why these plants?

Black pepper. Lavender. Frankincense. Rose. Vanilla. Each one carries its own signature of aromatic molecules — the terpenes and resin acids that give the plant its scent, and that scientists study in their own right. Black pepper is rich in beta-caryophyllene, the terpene researchers call a “dietary cannabinoid” because it selectively binds the CB2 receptor.⁠[2] Frankincense resin carries boswellic acids. Rose carries citronellol and geraniol.⁠[3] Lavender carries linalool and linalyl acetate. Vanilla carries vanillin. What modern research is revealing is why traditional plant medicinals were reached for, generation after generation: many of them speak a chemical language your body already runs.

Where is the science?

Fair question. Here is some of what researchers have published about the plants we're talking about. None are claims about what Rockstar products do. Rose: a 2021 systematic review pooled 32 randomized controlled trials of Rosa damascena, taken or inhaled in any form, and found lower measured anxiety, depression and stress scores in the treated groups — while rating the quality of that evidence very low to moderate and calling for better trials.⁠[4] Beta-caryophyllene, the black-pepper terpene: it was identified in 2008 as a selective CB2 agonist, a plant molecule that binds a cannabinoid receptor.⁠[2] A 2019 study of skin wounds in mice found that wounds treated with beta-caryophyllene re-epithelialized faster, with more cell proliferation and cell migration in the renewing tissue, and that the effect was strongest in females.⁠[5] Frankincense: a small randomized, double-blind, split-face trial in fifteen women found that a cream carrying 0.5% boswellic acids, applied daily for 30 days, measurably improved skin roughness, fine lines and elasticity compared with the same cream without them.⁠[6] Small studies, animal models and mixed evidence quality are all named here on purpose.

Sources
  1. [1] Lu HC, Mackie K. An introduction to the endogenous cannabinoid system. Biol Psychiatry. 2016;79(7):516–525. Review: receptors (CB1, CB2), endocannabinoids (anandamide, 2-AG) and their synthesizing and degrading enzymes. Evidence: strong.
  2. [2] Gertsch J, Leonti M, Raduner S, et al. Beta-caryophyllene is a dietary cannabinoid. Proc Natl Acad Sci USA. 2008;105(26):9099–9104. Selective CB2 binding (Ki 155 nM), functional agonist — in vitro and in mice. Evidence: strong.
  3. [3] Boskabady MH, Shafei MN, Saberi Z, Amini S. Pharmacological effects of Rosa damascena. Iran J Basic Med Sci. 2011;14(4):295–307. Review; rose oil constituents β-citronellol 14.5–47.5% and geraniol 5.5–18% (GC analyses cited therein). Evidence: directional.
  4. [4] Rasooli T, Nasiri M, Kargarzadeh Aliabadi Z, Rajabi MR. Rosa damascena Mill for treating adults' anxiety, depression, and stress: a systematic review and dose-response meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials. Phytother Res. 2021;35(12):6585–6606. 32 RCTs pooled; GRADE evidence quality very low to moderate. Evidence: moderate.
  5. [5] Koyama S, Purk A, Kaur M, et al. Beta-caryophyllene enhances wound healing through multiple routes. PLoS One. 2019;14(12):e0216104. Mouse model; re-epithelialization, cell proliferation and migration; sex differences reported. Evidence: directional.
  6. [6] Pedretti A, Capezzera R, Zane C, et al. Effects of topical boswellic acid on photo and age-damaged skin: clinical, biophysical, and echographic evaluations in a double-blind, randomized, split-face study. Planta Med. 2010;76(6):555–560. n = 15 women, 30 days, 0.5% boswellic acids vs vehicle. Evidence: directional.

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Meet Heather Reilly Hiemstra

Heather Reilly Hiemstra

The magic of live music and its possibilities of ecstatic transformation have inspired Heather in her journey since childhood, from professional actor to record industry scout, jeweler to blacksmith, alchemist to Rockstar Woman. Surviving postpartum colon cancer was the catalyst for Heather’s foray into formulating with pure plant botanicals ~ an intense desire to heal herself and keep her family healthy and well through all stages of life.

Heather believes, simply enough, that when we feel good, we can do good, and that the world needs more of that from all of us. Heather has been building the Rockstar Blends audience one relationship at a time with this message for over a decade. She is especially dedicated to helping the hundreds of women she’s met, and the millions more like them, who are desperate to have the conversation no one seems to want to have. How can I feel good as I age? How can I stay vibrant and sexy as my body changes through life? What can I use to help myself that’s truly safe to use?

Building these 100% plant-based formulations that help everyone feel so much better is just the beginning of Heather giving back for her second chance on life, for getting to be a wife and mom, for every comped ticket, every backstage pass, and every ecstatic, transformative moment life keeps sharing with her.

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GenX Hits Menopause Podcast hosted by Heather Reilly Hiemstra

Having the hard conversations about our bodies, ourselves, and each other that we all should have had a long time ago.

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